It's Ok To Ask For What You Want

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This husband of mine…

Proposed…eight years ago…after a trip to a pumpkin farm…met online…using that app Ourtime…had tried the other popular site…listing all those characteristics single me thought might be appealing…here I am…education…career…family life…likes…dislikes…blah blah blah…pick me…choose me…love…me…met some nice guys…but none…the right fit…

Years passed…single me gave it one more shot…this time…looking at it from a different perspective…why should single me…try to sell herself…why can’t single me…search…for what she wants in a relationship…

And so she did…said hey Ourtimers…this old gal…is looking for…a Christian…caring father…responsible…kind…trustworthy…got matched…with an old guy who made his heading as…honest…faithful and loyal…I care about people…took a jaunt to a cute little town…to celebrate 6 years of marriage…got gold member parking…thanks to living in a hotel for a month…saw Belly Blob Barbie…and just enjoyed…being us…

And so it is in life…sometimes…it’s ok…to ask for what YOU need…for what YOU want…for what…will make YOU happy…and you never know…those things…might just be what those special people of yours…desire…too…
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And this husband of mine agrees…